7 Signs You And Your Lover Are Breaking Up Soon

It is painful to acknowledge that you and your loved one are growing apart. This is especially difficult if you've invested a lot of years into the relationship. The fact is that you can never predict what will happen, but you can acknowledge the signs and see if a break-up is exactly where you're headed.

 

1. ASKING FOR SOMETHING THAT CANT BE GIVEN: It can be a child, a ring or a new residence. If your personal choices are being challenged, you and your partner could be pushing each other's limit until someone caves in and just quits.

 

2. WHEN THEIR ACCOMPLISHMENTS DON'T EXCITE YOU ANYMORE: At first, any small achievement used to call for a bunch of balloons, a party or even a bottle of champagne. If you've arrived at a point where you neither care nor acknowledge the good things that are happening in your lives, it could be a sign that your relationship has no bearing on your goals anymore.

 

3. THEY SEEM HAPPIER WITHOUT YOU:You'll notice these changes only if you look hard enough. When you're with your partner, everything is dull and colorless. When you see them with other people like friends and family, they tend to perk up. It's the same for you as well. Being happy is an instinctual reaction. You either are or you're not.

 
4. YOU CAN FEEL IT IN YOUR GUT: People are empathic beings. The level at which they sense unease in an environment differs, but it's there. If you feel that something is not right, don't brush it off. Delusions and denial can keep you from seeing the signs that your relationship is going nowhere. It could be staring you right in the face, but fear of losing your loved one can trick you into thinking that everything is still all right.

 

5. YOU BARELY TALK TO EACH OTHER:You are not learning anything new about one another or you're not enjoying the things you already know. You avoiding talking to each other, but you enjoy talking to your friends. It's not that there's nothing left to talk about. It's just that neither of you want to.

 

6. FIGHTS ARE PICKED FOR NO REASONS:Isn't this normal in all relationships? It is in a petty, PMS-induced, stressed out situation. If your partner is picking fights just to get in your face, it could lead to a blow-up. Those are usually followed by breakups.

 

7. LOADS OF UNRESOLVED FIGHTS: In order to have a good relationship, you need to tackle issues immediately and find agreeable solutions. If a big fight ended up being swept under the rug, then maybe neither of you is willing to fix it.